Self-esteem
Life is the most appreciated gift that we have, and is our duty to value and enjoy it every moment. Unfortunately, many people in our society does not see how valuable life is, how valuable every human being is in the world, and especially how value they are. This kind of problem is called a low self-esteem problem.
In the other side we have those that think they are the most important, the best, the only ones that make things good. This is also an issue because provokes a person becomes condescending. In my opinion people like this have a really high self-esteem problem.
Self-esteem issues have many origins, most of them related to experiences and traumas that people who suffer this issue had in past. This traumas and experiences lived in the past mark life of these people creating different kinds of complex that will compose the behavior of a people with a low self-esteem.
We have to remember that these experiences responsible of the complexes that a person with low self-esteem has are product of different society stereotypes, behaviors and conducts that sometimes we recreate.
People with low self-esteem suffer many types of rejections, emotional pain and misattributions. They are often bashful, reserved, reticent and timid; because of this behavior people thinks they are self-conscious or even condescending and judge before meet the person.
That is the reason why people who is victim of this issue should take actions to overcome their fears and defeat their disabilities.
Some advice that we I can tell to people with low self-esteem are that they have to value him or herself, they have to understand that they are unique; they are not less than anybody. Second one is to demonstrate him or herself that they can do anything and overcome any obstacle that can appear in life. Third one is to understand that a person who bother and ridicules other people has a huge necessity of affect and they only feel jealous or intimidate because of you.
In summary, the human been is a perfect machine, but the human soul is unique and value; everyone is important in the society and nobody is less than other.
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